I grew up in a WC family I went to WC schools for the most part, I work in a WC job with other WC people. I live and breathe WC. They aren't a monolithic group. If we are to be anarchists we must gain their informed consent before plunging them into something they aren't asking for.
I have on board prejudices and cultural baggage from my upbringing and a violent temprement. I can see these things as undesirable and do my best to keep them under control. I am in effect trying to free myself from these oppressive behaviours.
A lot of people who are WC or any other class for that matter don't even see this in themselves and therefore are trapped in oppressive behaviours themselves and trap others with them. Just because someone is oppressed doesn't mean they are automatically better than their oppressors.
For me the WC is not the demon they are thought of by the other classes, nor are they the oppressed saints/martyrs, that some anarchists seem to think they are. They are real people and we must treat them as real people. Otherwise we just another group of bolsheviks.
Don't worry about me seeing the point of your criticism, that came through clearly. I appreciate it that's partly why I put this up in the first place, the other points being waking up others to the humanity of the WC and shitstirring.
Given this as the nature of the "Middle Class" or whatever other name you want to assign the servants of the very rich who keep them in power by acting as the "Capos" of Capitalism ("Capos" were the people who acted as cops in the Nazi concentration camps and in exchange didn't end up in the oven!), I cannot imagine these people forsaking the "moral" foundations of the system at their own expense (By "morality" I mean the manner in which they arrange their thinking to rationalize screwing over others when they can benefit from it materially). It is a contradiction. It would require them to act against their own interests. I would not trust them if they claimed they were prepared to do so. If we are trying to "convince" anyone, it should be the producers in society and not the parasites who would like nothing better than to keep bleeding the rest of us. Given our limited resources, appealing to our "masters" to confess their capitalist sins and accept Bakunin as their personal savior appears to me to be high farce!